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I’m almost 22 and I was never in a relationship with a woman. Some people in my family put me down and give me a hard time for being so old and never having a gf. Would this turn girls off and think I’m a loser? Or depending on the girl could it make them even more excited?

Every girl I know has a boyfriend or turned me down. So I have to ask out some random girl. I’m straight forward and I just ask them out on a date. Is that to aggressive or does it depend on the girl? What is the best way to do this?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I don’t think you’re so old that not ever having had a girlfriend is a red flag. If you were 32 or 42 and had never had a girlfriend, that might be different, but at 22, you’re still young enough to just be starting out in the dating world. While some girls might find this a turn off, others will find it a turn on, and still others will consider it a non-issue. Don’t worry about this — just enjoy the dating process. 😉

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