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I’m almost 22 and I was never in a relationship with a woman. Some people in my family put me down and give me a hard time for being so old and never having a gf. Would this turn girls off and think I’m a loser? Or depending on the girl could it make them even more excited?

Every girl I know has a boyfriend or turned me down. So I have to ask out some random girl. I’m straight forward and I just ask them out on a date. Is that to aggressive or does it depend on the girl? What is the best way to do this?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I don’t think you’re so old that not ever having had a girlfriend is a red flag. If you were 32 or 42 and had never had a girlfriend, that might be different, but at 22, you’re still young enough to just be starting out in the dating world. While some girls might find this a turn off, others will find it a turn on, and still others will consider it a non-issue. Don’t worry about this — just enjoy the dating process. 😉

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[Jay Cee]

Maybe you just haven’t found the right girl for you. Don’t pressure yourself too much, the right girl will come to you at the right time. You’re still young, believe me you’ll meet a lot of girl. For now just enjoy being single.

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