When I don’t call him, he calls me. He asked for space and that was what I was trying to give him. Now he wants to join a gospel group with me. Why is he wanting to do the same things I am doing. I really love him and wonder if we could salvage this relationship. Should I step back and see what direction he is going with this friendship? So what exactly does it mean when a man says he need space? Do you think he is seeing someone else? If so, why when I ask him if there is someone else he tells me no? If he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with me, why hang on to me as a friend? He told me the other day that joining the gospel group with me is something we could do together and that he loves me but I didn’t respond to that comment. Should I have told him I love him too? He gives off mixed feelings and I don’t know where his mind is when it comes to him and I. I talked to a preacher that I confide in and he told me I need to tell him that friendship will not do and either we are in a relationship or not and tell him that I need to go on with my life. But at the same time, that preacher is trying to date me and I don’t like him like that. I just wanted to hear from a man’s prospective about the situation thinking I can better understand how my ex is thinking. He called me this morning to say good morning and he does that every morning. It is almost like it was when we first met as far as him calling and making sure I am ok. What should I do???????
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