Thanks for the advice, yes she was seeing him when he passed away and we are both under 30 now.
Just one further question, I have this collection of old letters and photo’s from my previous partners. She has requested that I throw all of these out because I should not hold on to these. From what I understand these are a part of my life too and a history of who I am. I can’t see why she should be able to keep all her old stuff from this one person yet I am not allowed to keep my old stuff. This does not seem fair…..afterall he is an ex too.