[alex]

So I talked to her Sunday night and she wants to just be friends. I was pretty sure that was going to be the end result of all this after the last 2 weeks when she hasn’t been to responsive to me. I doubt we can exist as friends since I’m still interested in her, but maybe give it some time and it could work.

I came to the conclusion that she doesn’t really know what she wants right now and has too many things going on her life right now. She broke up with her boyfriend in February and has been spending a lot of time meeting new people and hanging out with friends since then. She seems to know ALOT of people and is very outgoing, which I find admirable, but I don’t think she’s ready to settle down with any one guy yet.

Anyway, I just thought I’d give you the last piece of the story lol. Onto the next one I guess 🙂

[alex]

well she bailed on me..

I got a txt this morning saying she hurt her ankle and had to go to urgent care last night and couldn’t make it to our date. I guess I have no reason to think she’s lying, but what I’ve noticed is while I put an effort to talk to her and setup some fun things for us to do, she really doesn’t seem to do the same for me.

What confuses me most is the week leading up to our first date we talked alot (she contacted me as well), we had a great time on our date, and we both set up some fun things to do over the coming weeks. Then immediately after our first date she turned ice cold and rarely talked to me.

I guess it’s pretty much over and I should stop contacting her. If she contacts me, great… but I’m not counting on it. This Saturday she has a party she invited me to on our first date, so if she still wants me to come, I’ll let her contact me.

Time to start moving on I guess =/

[alex]

Thanks for the advice!

On our first date we made plans to go on a riverboat cruise that I got free tickets to for this Thursday. So I’ll just plan to talk to her again at that time.

I’ll let you know how it goes 😉

Thanks,
Alex

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