Yes, it’s true it is a strippers job to charm one and encourage them to come back to spend more money.
However, if she does have an interest in you personally, she might agree to meet you for an outside of work activity. Such as: going for coffee, seeing a movie, taking a walk around the block, having a simple conversation over a quick cigarette…
If that does happen, which of course is, as already stated, unlikely, there is no harm ever in giving it one shot. Just try. That’s all any of us do, putting ourselves out there and hoping. It’s never ever easy, but do no assume, due to her job, that there is no possibility in a relationship ever forming.
Don’t go there all the time and get private lap dances though…that is kind of creepy ^_^