[Jamgurl]

Thanks for you reply April.

All this happen months ago and I just wanted to hear what other women think of the situation.
I said our relationship had been great because we have never had any serious argument over the years we are together.
I cant confidently say he have cheated because he really does not have the importunity to. At the time this incident happen he was mourning his mom and didn’t go anywhere. He is Most definitely guilty of flirting and being disrespectful to the relationship.

After doing my “investigation” it came to my attention that the child the chick spoke of actual father lives overseas(with his wife&family). I guess that is her way of putting salt in my wound.

I do appreciate you being frank with me, I like that. I am working on forgiving him since it was his 1st offence, its up to him to prove himself. I however will take your advise if he should do anything like that.

Continue doing the good work!
Will check out your social pages

[Jamgurl]

[quote=”specialgirl”]cheaters always throw it back on the other person for snooping..keep the focus on him.. at the very least hes being disrectful of your rel..chatting for hours? sending graphic texts? all contact with this girl should stop..hes not respectful of the boundaries of an exclusive rel..[/quote]

Thanks for your response. He and I had a argument few months ago and he said he does not speak to her anymore and changed his cell number. But after all his action it has been hard to believe his words.

All this happen months ago, i do notice the calls have stopped and he isn’t online much anymore but i cant help but wonder if he cheated. A email the chick sent him, she seem VERY hurt that i emailed her and even said he “played” he and she was saving herself for him.

He have NEVER said he did anything, ive always thought of him to be honest but he does lie and i find out. Ive never snoop and found anything other than the pic he sent. Last week i saw a email he sent her months ago, it wasn’t intimate but he was telling her he will be home all day and will be sure to call her so she must not worry. (She call him babes and was complaining that he wasn’t calling much)

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