Thanks for the response April.
I can tell you for sure that we have talked about it and that is where the arguments stem from. I have asked her several times if she would go to the strip club with me and NO is always the response. The worst part is that I am pretty positive she went to to the strip club with her girlfriends and it wasn’t to see the guy’s. I am totally fine with her going to either kind of show.
We have actually watched 10 min. of a soft porn movie and she shut it off. She said it was making her sick. When we were first together we did a threesome and I thought she enjoyed it but years later she said it was a huge mistake. I really think it is a self esteem issue or maybe a trust thing. She knows I love her to death and adore every part of her being. I tell her that everyday. But, the more I talk to her about this the bigger the arguments become. I am just getting tired of sneaking around to get my little peaks in and hope I don’t get caught.
