Thanks April, I want to be treated well and treully wish things were different, but as you said he is never going to treat me well… I sent you a friend request on facebook,thanks so much for the advice, and I will work on meeting new people. I need a vacation to get away from everyone.
[quote=”April Masini”]This is very simple. He’s never going to treat you well. Ever. 😳
There’s some part of you that doesn’t want to be treated well. Until you heal YOURSELF, you’re going to keep putting yourself in situations that are painful.
You’ve mentioned everything he does wrong — I get it. He’s an alcoholic who lied to you when he was married, is selfish and doesn’t show you affection. 😕 Basically, he’s Mr. Wrong. But what about you?
The real question is: Why you won’t put yourself in a healthy situation? You have to answer that for yourself. If you decide you want to be in a healthy and happy relationship, then you have to break up with this guy and stop having any contact — because that’s the only way it will work for you, since you keep going back to him. Surround yourself with new people — because the ones you’re around now, aren’t helping you. You’re stuck, and have been for years.
You have a big task in front of you — but you CAN do it.
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