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[quote=”painfullyoblivious”]Hello April,

I met a girl online back in October and we really hit it off. Things were going well up until a ruined date and I got the dreaded “Lets be friends for now” talk, and so we were… but it started to cause problems because I know where my interest is with her and its not to “just be friends”. We had 2 other minor hiccups, but they panned out.

Time passes, I do a bit of pressing out of frustration, and she agrees hat she’s interested in seeing if we can grow into a real relationship. Later that same night, we had the dumbest misunderstanding ever, but one that left me seriously upset with her. I made the mistake of saying I might need a few weeks. That was the last time I saw her.

A few days later I called to talk about it and she called me from her [i]real[/i] number– a first, since up to that point, it had been google voice. The call turned into an argument though, “because she said she wanted to see where it would go and I told her no so now that means she’s going to be alone and avoid dating. Anyone.”– I thought I’d managed to turn the call around though by the end cause I’d got her a bit back on my side and considering hanging out later that week. That was the last time I talked to her. It didn’t pan out, no biggie. Thanksgiving rolls around the next week, she goes out of town (we did a little texting before then) and that was the last I heard at all… I tried calling/texting after the break to no avail.

I have no idea what on Earth this means though… Am I getting “the silent treatment”, or have I been forgotten forever? I mean, you don’t call someone on number you [b]know[/b] they don’t have to tell them something like that, right? 😐 I don’t know whether to fight for her, step away and let her breathe, or count it all as another loss. April and others, what’s your take?[/quote]

[painfullyoblivious]

Hello April,

I met a girl online back in October and we really hit it off. Things were going well up until a ruined date and I got the dreaded “Lets be friends for now” talk, and so we were… but it started to cause problems because I know where my interest is with her and its not to “just be friends”. We had 2 other minor hiccups, but they panned out.

Time passes, I do a bit of pressing out of frustration, and she agrees hat she’s interested in seeing if we can grow into a real relationship. Later that same night, we had the dumbest misunderstanding ever, but one that left me seriously upset with her. I made the mistake of saying I might need a few weeks. That was the last time I saw her.

A few days later I called to talk about it and she called me from her [i]real[/i] number– a first, since up to that point, it had been google voice. The call turned into an argument though, “because she said she wanted to see where it would go and I told her no so now that means she’s going to be alone and avoid dating. Anyone.”– I thought I’d managed to turn the call around though by the end cause I’d got her a bit back on my side and considering hanging out later that week. That was the last time I talked to her. It didn’t pan out, no biggie. Thanksgiving rolls around the next week, she goes out of town (we did a little texting before then) and that was the last I heard at all… I tried calling/texting after the break to no avail.

I have no idea what on Earth this means though… Am I getting “the silent treatment”, or have I been forgotten forever? I mean, you don’t call someone on number you [b]know[/b] they don’t have to tell them something like that, right? 😐 I don’t know whether to fight for her, step away and let her breathe, or count it all as another loss. April and others, what’s your take?

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April, once again I appreciate your response.

I [i]did[/i] ask the girl out from the previous thread, and she said yes…. but it never materialized. I considered doing the same for the current girl, i actually really want to, but i don’t want to present myself as clingy/stalker type… after all, my advances have been turned down twice, albeit via text. I guess I’m still thinking too much 😐

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