[Jill]

Thanks. I have very strong feelings for this guy, but obviously have lost some trust due to what happened. Let’s say that I do want to date him again and lose the bitterness.

I just want any relationship we have going forward to have mutual trust and respect. If I don’t say anything and we just pick up where we left off, am I not setting up a dynamic where he thinks he can drop me and pick me up whenever he pleases? Is there a way to express my concern over what happened without sounding bitter?

If we do reconcile, then I’d like for this experience to somehow bring us closer rather than set the stage for history repeatting itself.

What can I do or say to make sure he values me too much to do this again without sounding bitter?

Thanks again

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