Hi Sue26,
I am waiting on a post I just submitted that is similar to yours but I am married now. I would definitely hold off because now the fear for me is divorce. I did confront my fiance and (now)husband about porn issues and he said he would stop…but he hasn’t. There have been many instances and now I don’t know if I should leave him or not because I can’t trust him. We’ve only been married one year. I wish I would have thought twice when I caught him while we were engaged. Please take my advice and don’t rush into marriage!!