[RAIDERETTECHICA]

I’ve been seeing this guy for little over a month now, and I recently spoke to you before April & you were AWESOME with advice. But recently some new stuff has happened. I did see him last Wednesday night and spent the night. I brought over dinner & he was very surprised by that. We had a wonderful evening, very relaxing. Then Thursday morning I went to leave & remember I left my paints there. He & I are both artist. So I said oh I got to get my paints & brushes. He said “No no, leave em here. Remember I’m going to teach you how to paint flowers.” Later Thursday afternoon he started texting me like he use to before the whole “I need space” thing came up. He was asking me how my day was & so forth. He even mentioned that his daughter said hi to me, which was a big deal seeing how I only met her one other time & she loved me. I told him if she wants to go shopping with me Saturday & he said she would love that except she wasn’t feeling good, but thank you anyway for the invite. I said no problem & went on with my day. Saturday came & went, barely any texting between us. So when Sunday afternoon came rolling around, I decided I’d give him a call since we rarely talk on the phone. He answered & we talked for about 4 mins. Orginally Thursday he said he wanted to do dinner Monday or Tuesday of this week, but yesterday he said he wasn’t feeling good & he thought he might have caught whatever Chloe (his daughter had). I said “Oh well don’t worry hun. We can do dinner next week. I completely understand.” And he responded “No no, I want to see you this week definitely.” And I said well just let me know.

I want to further a relationship with this guy, & I think he does too. I want to think he’s just taking this very slow & maybe thought we rushed things when we first met by always texting you’re on my mind & so forth. Now my question is, should I just stop texting him because I’m usually the one who does all the texting & instead have him text me? I don’t want him to think I’m not interested anymore. I did ask him about us becoming exclusive & he said yes in due time & I know he’s not seeing anyone else. I just want him to miss me like I miss him & text me instead of me being the one who chases him. How can you get a guy to chase you? And how do I ask him when we will see each other or should I not mention it at all this week & see what happens instead? I want to text him so badly right now & say I can’t wait to see you this week, but I know that would be pushing

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