I am in my early 50’s and have been online many times to these dating sites. Most of the men that contact me either just send an email that says they like my profile, they have poor grammar/ spelling, the pictures on their profile are of their car, dog, backyard, shirtless, or with other women. All are turn offs. Just as much a turnoff is someone who is too flattering and complimentary in an opening email. I happen to be one of those women that always sends a “not interested” or “no thanks” note to someone who either contacts or winks at me. (many of them don’t take no for an answer, which is an entirely different column for you to write). Oh….and let’s have a column about the men that send out hundreds of winks then when the woman replies; she never hears from him back. What’s up with that? Shooting fish in a barrel with a shotgun? Bottom line: Realize that if I am really interested in you; you will know it.
