[jom94]

Yeah your right. I am obsessing a little because the relationship was going some where and so well and then I was hit by a curve very quickly after investing a lot of time and emotion. She has been herself the whole time even breaking it off with me for her daughter is consistent w/ her character, but it seams like she wont call me again which is so far out of her character. Anyway I will stay busy and try not to think about it hope for the best and see if she stays true to her character. Thank you again.

[jom94]

Like you said “…so accept the “break” and don’t pretend it’s something that it isn’t..” Its just the things that she said like, she thought it was unfair for her that when she if finally happy she has to give that up for her daughter that tells me she really doesn’t want to but has to and it gives me hope to wait for her. And how she said how unfair it is for me that tells me she still cares for me and she isn’t just brushing me off.And then we were planing for long term relationship, her idea by the way even though i wanted that too lol. She also said that it would be harder for me then her but that this was also very hard for her. Again that shows she cares and that it is a hard decision for her.

[jom94]

Thank you. You make since. I want to give her space and give it the best opportunity for things to change if she decides to let me back in. I have one more question. How likely is it for a girl to contact a guy again, after she gets things straight, after she pushes him away for reasons such as what she told me. A lot of people that met her and I together think that she will because she really did feel something for me and we were getting serious. And she did tell me before that she doesn’t know what she is going to do once her daughter is gone for the summer and thank god she will have me during that time. I just want to know so I don’t give myself false hope.

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