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J2theLo

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  • in reply to: " I NEED TO BE ALONE" #24216
    J2theLo
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    After giving him his alone time, he did call. However, I didn’t answer for a reason. He has to really miss me & he has been in contact with my sister. Last night, without any planning something told me that, he would be in the dumps. My Sister, her Date and I called him to say we were in the area, waving hello from afar & he should join us for some laughs. Well, without hesitation he contacted me immediately. We all agreed to meet up for Drinks and Dinner. Joining also along, was mutual friends of His and Myself. Needless to say, we ALL had the BEST TIME OF OUR LIVES! We had the best laughs because we, didn’t plan for it to be a HUGE gathering of us all & he was in the best of spirits. Now, I am taking it slow with him. Using this as a learning process. Learning not to be too smothering & to allow us all some space.

    [quote=”April Masini”]When a man’s words don’t match his actions, pay attention to his actions. If his actions let you know that everything is okay — he wants to see you and he makes the dates, makes an effort to let you know how special you are, etc. — then it is. However, if he’s starting to want to see you less often, and seems distracted and not as interested in you, then you’ll know he’s losing interest.

    Hope that helps! Let me know how things go.

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    in reply to: Head Games or Testing the Waters?? #23494
    J2theLo
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    Yes I do. 😉 Quite frankly, the idea of getting married again would be nice but, yes there is always a BUT. I am scared to death of marriage again. Scared of failure. I know this is something I need to work on as, there are a lot of great marriages out there. However, I am just scared.

    Once again, I heard over the weekend from his friends jokingly saying to myself..’ His future Fiancee.’ Or.. ‘ Mrs. XXXX’ Like I said, the idea is nice but, I am scared to death.

    I was scared of getting into the dating field..got over that. Scared of getting into a relationship..got over that. Scared of falling in love…got over that. Now, the ‘ M’ word is something I am needing time on. 😉

    in reply to: Head Games or Testing the Waters?? #23285
    J2theLo
    Member #151,686

    Thank You!! I wasn’t quite sure but, this is as I thought 😀

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