[J2theLo]

What exactly does this mean when a man who you’re dating ask this of you?

Yet, he is in contact with my sister and stated yesterday that, he misses me very much and loves me? I’m confused.

FYI: We have been dating less than 6 months.

Hope you can shed some light on this vague statement. 🙂

[April Masini, your AskApril]

When a man’s words don’t match his actions, pay attention to his actions. If his actions let you know that everything is okay — he wants to see you and he makes the dates, makes an effort to let you know how special you are, etc. — then it is. However, if he’s starting to want to see you less often, and seems distracted and not as interested in you, then you’ll know he’s losing interest.

Hope that helps! Let me know how things go.

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[J2theLo]

After giving him his alone time, he did call. However, I didn’t answer for a reason. He has to really miss me & he has been in contact with my sister. Last night, without any planning something told me that, he would be in the dumps. My Sister, her Date and I called him to say we were in the area, waving hello from afar & he should join us for some laughs. Well, without hesitation he contacted me immediately. We all agreed to meet up for Drinks and Dinner. Joining also along, was mutual friends of His and Myself. Needless to say, we ALL had the BEST TIME OF OUR LIVES! We had the best laughs because we, didn’t plan for it to be a HUGE gathering of us all & he was in the best of spirits. Now, I am taking it slow with him. Using this as a learning process. Learning not to be too smothering & to allow us all some space.

[quote=”April Masini”]When a man’s words don’t match his actions, pay attention to his actions. If his actions let you know that everything is okay — he wants to see you and he makes the dates, makes an effort to let you know how special you are, etc. — then it is. However, if he’s starting to want to see you less often, and seems distracted and not as interested in you, then you’ll know he’s losing interest.

Hope that helps! Let me know how things go.

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[April Masini, your AskApril]

Sounds great — let me know how things have gone!

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