[moonbunny001]

I really don’t think you know how to give advice, every forum post that I saw you always attack the poster and stand up for whom their asking advice on. Maybe, instead of analyzing every word you can look at the big picture and actually help someone. Cause all you’ve done to me is attack how I “treat him like a parent” instead of actual advice!

Maybe you need to take time to figure out if you should be giving advice.

[moonbunny001]

Thank you it was very helpful.

However, I don’t scold him I never have for anything he’s done no matter how stupid it was. I just want him to see that I’m going to be here in the end of the day not them ( they have left him before because he couldn’t get them drinks and ciggs.)

[moonbunny001]

I believe he does love you, but with the issues you two seem to be having it may seem like he wants to slow it down and not jump right into things. Give it some time and maybe he will feel close enough to you to move in and stay.

[moonbunny001]

I didn’t mean it like that, I meant it as a way to say I didn’t argue with what he wanted. Please though no criticism only helpful responses on how to fix my problem.

Thanks,
Moonbunny001

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