[Alek4alt]

Thank you for your help 😀

[Alek4alt]

Thank you for your help April, you really are a big help to me. Last question.

I spoke to her in person on Friday and she told me she is seeing someone else. When I asked her if she’s seeing or dating this guy, she could not give me the answer. I still love her, and after more then a month, I still miss her a lot. I told her her that I learned my mistakes and I told her if she is dating I will give her space and contact her in a few months, and she said “thank you”. When I told her that I always pictured us living in a house with a child and a dog with a big back yard, she got surprised by it. She told me she misses me, and how well we got along. And that maybe in a year or 5 years, if we’re both single, that she’ll want to try dating me again.

Do you think I should still pursued her, or just leave it alone?

[Alek4alt]

Purpose as in get a hobby, and go be more successful.

I am doing those things. I changed my wardrobe to the way she liked, and I’m trying to further my career. When I told her that, she told me that she knew she needed to give me space to grow. Also, that she’s been trying to get me to change for a while, and that I finally did it “at the end.” When we spoke I acted and told her that I moved on, and that I’m okay with the break up. The thing is, we have been broken up for 6 months now, and she did tell me that she went on a date with some guy twice, and that she really likes him, but she’s still not sure if she wants to date him. So I’m not sure if there is a guy or if there isn’t and if saying that was a way for her to distance us, and get me on the right track. Really got me confused or maybe i’m reading to much into this.

[Alek4alt]

I’m 27 and she’s 26. I am an X-ray tech at a great hospital. When she said change, she ment new wardrobe, take care of my self, and have a purpose. Honestly, our relationship was really boring in the last year, and every time I wanted to work on that she didn’t. She still wants to keep connection with me, because we were friends for 4 years then dated 4 years. I love her deeply as a best friend and romantically, she told me she loves me like a brother.

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