Thank you so much for your help, but it looks like I won’t be done quite yet of course. So far so good, I bought the book and it was tremendous help, I had no idea it would work so well, so thank you, THANK YOU. We went out and had a great time, we were intimate, and I found out that she still loves me and wants to be accepted back into the family. So apparently part of her is telling her that she can ditch this guy, but its too early yet and she hasn’t. I have her hooked, I KNOW I can get her back, she agrees it’s not over and we could have a future, but how do I do that? How do I make her come back and stay for good? Maybe she realizes more now that this guy is way below her and myself, she says that when she’s with me I steal her heart and that she wants to be with me and no one else. How can I make her feel like that all the time, even when I’m not around or when she’s with him? I don’t want to be used, I don’t want there to be any lies, and most of all I don’t want to push her, but I’ve gotten this far with your fantastic advice and your help, how do I get over this hump and bring back the girl of my dreams forever?