Dear April–
Thank you very much for the reply. I made up my mind to be friends ONLY with Steven. he is a great guy. and i will help him because I wish him all the best. But you are right I want to have healthy and happy people around me, especially at the moment. I got a letter from Steven and he said I admire him and he wants to get himself together. I am happy I can talk to him. Everyone gets hurt and of course everyone needs to talk and be helped sometimes. So I do not mind listening to him and even spending my time to make his life brighter. When I see his smile it makes me happy.
My husband is a very good person. But it looks like I can not afford to be stressed out all the time with him. I tried to talk to him today but he was very upset that I am speaking my mind. I want to base my relationship on trust and understanding, but my husband who I love and care for does not want to listen to me. It is his own choice. I can only give him advice. It is him and only him who should understand the root of the problem. I would gladly assist him he wanted to. I must admit he said he knows that he drinks a lot and he wants to change for the better. I will see. My fingers are crossed for him.
Thank you April very much 😀 .
I decided to write down my priorities and act accordingly.
Best of luck to you April.
x
