[katiexstanton]

does it seem like he’s really interested in me and likes me a lot? & also, he’s been thinking about joining the military for over a year. we’ve only been together a short amount of time but he told me about a month ago that even if he decided to join he said there would be no way he was leaving me, and it would be my decision if i wanted to wait for him or move on with my life. then yesterday he tells me he has the asvab and physical on thursday and friday..and then he’s going to enlist i’m sure. i asked him what does he wanna do about me and him and he said “i’ll cross that bridge when i get there..idk if i get a computer, or if i get only 10 mins to talk on the phone, and i call my mom dad sisters and nephews and have no times to talk to you” and i said “well about a month ago you made it seem like you wanted to still be together, and i’m just saying you don’t have to make any promises, but i would still wanna be with you” and he said “i’m not making any promises i would wanna be with you too” and i said “well do you at least still wanna be with me right now?” and he said “yeah why not..what do you think i’m gonna go out and hang out with a bunch of girls because i know i’m leaving?” and then he said “it’s 3 months away at the earliest if i felt like we weren’t going to continue things i wouldn’t tell you i didn’t wanna be with you anymore or not talk to you, or be like i’m leaving on the plane now we can’t talk anymore.”

idk..i feel so weird it makes me feel like he doesnt really care about me if he’s willing to just end things..and i’m over here willing to wait for him because i care about him that much. he seemed so interested in me and told me he loved me and now i just feel like he’s distant, and wanted to still be together if he went away and now he has his doubts..please help me..

does he seem interested and have real feelings for me?
did i mess up?
is it normal for guys going into the military to break up with their girlfriends?

[katiexstanton]

Do you think he was interested in me and if he still lived on the island he would ask me out again? I guess I’m just confused I thought he was interested in me and out of nowhere he just cut me out because he’s moving. I don’t know if I did something or if he just wants to cut off contact because he’s moving and he won’t be able to see me? Can you please let me know what you think?

[katiexstanton]

Okay so you think he was interested in me but now he has a lot going on in his life and he has lost interest because he’s moving and what not. Do you think he was interested and lost interest because of the excessive texting or do you think that he had already lost interest just because of the fact that he was moving and knew it wouldn’t work out?

[katiexstanton]

What made you believe he was interested in me in the beginning? And when do you think he lost interest..because he was moving or because of my excessive texting?

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