[Rusty]

Thanks for the help. I really appreciate it. I am moving on. I deserve to be treated better and not like a door Matt or lied to. I have already met several woman. I am going to get counseling for being obsessive but i hate when women give me their number and say they wanna go out and don’t text back

[Rusty]

I dated this girl for four months update
she texted a guy while on a date with me a month ago and lied anout it but admitted to the lie the next day. I messaged the guy last Friday and told him that I was dating her and he said he had been dating her for almost a year. She found out I messaged him and got mad. I called her a lying cheating fat whore slut out of anger and other bad things. Later we spoke and I apologized and said i said those things out of anger and would never do it again. She said she only dated that guy a few months and wasn’t seeing him anymore. He told me to tell him what was going on and I then messaged him saying I was having sex with her for four months. He then removed her from his myspace and she deleted her Facebook and myspace and blocked my phone calls texts but added me on yahoo instant messaenger. I tried telling her the last couple days I was sorry and said those things out of anger but she won’t forgive me and never wants to talk to me again. Will she ever forgive me and allow me back into her life?

[Rusty]

I really only wanted to ask those questions so that I know where we satnd and try not to ask them frequently. My problem I that I have an obsessive problem and it’s hard to stay in the moment. I did ask her for a day an time we can see each other and she said maybe thursday or Saturday. I hate maybes and I really don’t want to hear her say no. So when the day comes for us to go out should I not even mention it and wait for her to tell me if we are going out or not?
Another thing is that we text so much and have everyday but two since we met four months ago ( the first day was when i told her not to text me until she unblocked me from facebook and then two days later told her I was being selfish and was sorry) and the other day was last Monday when I told her i was blocking texts due to too many texts from my email which wasn’t true but wanted her to calle lol. If I don’t text her back sometimes in the past she has accused me of ignoring her and we both agreed to never ignore each other no matter what.
Thanks for your help!!
Any more insight??

[Rusty]

We are texting now but not sure if me texting her is good

[Rusty]

I couldn’t help myself and texted her today and told her that I removed the text block and asked her to call me. She did call and I asked her these quesions:
told her I missed her, she said she misses me also!!
Asked if she met, dated or saw another guy: she said no
asked if she still really likes me alot like she did when we met: she said yes
asked if she still wants to continue to date me and see me: and she said yes
asked if when I can see her: she said maybe thurs or sat
I asked her how school and counseling was also and she said good and we talked a little about that.
I told her that I had never been through anything like this and felt I wasn’t doing a good job of giving her time and she said I had been very patient with her.
Also asked her when she would unblock me from Facebook: she said sometime she would but didn’t say when
the only thing I am concerned about is seeing her. Alot of times I get anxious and ask the day may be getting together and then she sometimes says she can’t see me that day. What should I do about this situation? Should I not ask and wait for her to let me know if we are getting together or not? Should I text her sometimes or always wait for her to text me then respond?

[Rusty]

Should I call her on her birthday and say happy birthday and I miss you or just say happy birthday or don’t call?

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