Thanks so much for your help. Its been tough to figure things out because many people including his mother say to wait he will come around or he just has to get through training and then he will be ready for a relationship, but I don’t know if he will ever be able to be in a long distance relationship. I think he likes to experience things with someone right there with him or feel like they are directly part of his life. For me, I am a pretty independent person who can do their own thing and don’t really need a relationship I just like to know how to handle things when it come to the heart. Especially since I really do care about him and want to be supportive of him… I am just trying to figure out a good way to be his friend and supportive while not getting attached. Any good suggestions?