[blueye28]

I was doing so well with this. We hadn’t talked for 2 weeks. Then of course, the one day he texts me I was drunk at a party. I didn’t respond at first but then as the night when on I finally cracked. Now, I feel like I’ve lost all the progress I’ve made in this situation. Now I feel like next time I ignore him he’ll know it’s on purpose and that I’m being flakey or something and that I’ll eventually crack. I want him to think/know that I’m moving on. Should I just be upfront with him next time we talk and tell him we need to end all communications? Seeming as how I’m not strong enough to ignore him completely. ? Or should I just go back to ignoring him again and lock my phone up next time I’m drinking just in case? 🙂

[blueye28]

Thank you for your response! I have been rationalizing to myself for way to long. It is time for me to move on from this guy. I know this might sound silly, but part of me wants him to panic and realize that he’s lost me since I feel like he just takes me for granted knowing that I will always be around. Should I ignore him completely? Or should I respond to his texts next time he send them?

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