I have my own problems that I can not answer, but we ask for someone not involved to help us see clearly because love is blind sometimes, understandable!
She disconnected from you sadly 🙁 Something went off track somewhere. Women only disconnect usually when they are getting their emotional needs met elsewhere. If they are into you, they fight for you and the relationship, and then thats when you guys call us nagging. If she is not nagging you about the relationship and is being sneaky, she is not into the relationship. If your gut says she’s being unfaithful chance are, she is!
You sound like a nice guy, and like most of us in love, you are fighting for your relatioship. You can’t change her but you can change yourself, and it appears you do not have much vested in this relationship to take much emotional abuse..Stand up to her and tell her you deserve love and respect and if she does not give it, move over and let someone else do it! If you are not ready for this yet, then be quite and withdrawn yourself, that drives women crazy!!! Good Luck 🙂