[88maroon]

When your in a relationship, some times ones “pride” does not matter.
We do crazy things when we’re in love. So pride is out the window.
Here’s a question, When you were with her last night, how was it? Did you feel like some thing was still there?
In my past relationship, after trying to work on things and be “just friends” I just had the feeling that it was over.
There’s nothing we can do when people just fall out of love.
One of the biggest signs I noticed when my ex and I started to go down hill was….umm…
when we were texting one another and i felt the love was not there anymore. Through text I felt it..that’s crazy. It’s one of the worst feelings in the world. But at the end I tried with everything I had and she still needed to find herself.
So ask yourself is the love still there? How much work are you willing to put in? And are you ready to let your pride go out the window knowing that at the end she might not take you back.
“JUST DO IT” “YOLO” (you only live once)
If you don’t want to try one last time because you already did. Then good move on and find another girl.
If you want to try then go ahead, go big or go home. You don’t want to look back and say “What if..”
BUt at the end, just tell yourself
“I did everything I could, I fought, and put a lot of effort in the things I did to try to get her back. It’s her lost and it’s time for me to move on. I deserve better”
And that’s that.
As i said earlier “people can always stay in your heart, but not in your life”
I heard it from somewhere and it has stayed with me.

[88maroon]

When your in a relationship, some times ones “pride” does not matter.
We do crazy things when we’re in love. So pride is out the window.
Here’s a question, When you were with her last night, how was it? Did you feel like some thing was still there?
In my past relationship, after trying to work on things and be “just friends” I just had the feeling that it was over.
There’s nothing we can do when people just fall out of love.
One of the biggest signs I noticed when my ex and I started to go down hill was….umm…
when we were texting one another and i felt the love was not there anymore. Through text I felt it..that’s crazy. It’s one of the worst feelings in the world. But at the end I tried with everything I had and she still needed to find herself.
So ask yourself is the love still there? How much work are you willing to put in? And are you ready to let your pride go out the window knowing that at the end she might not take you back.
“JUST DO IT” “YOLO” (you only live once)
If you don’t want to try one last time because you already did. Then good move on and find another girl.
If you want to try then go ahead, go big or go home. BUt at the end, just tell yourself
“I did everything I could, I fought, and put a lot of effort in the things I did to try to get her back. It’s her lost and it’s time for me to move on. I deserve better”
And that’s that.
As i said earlier “people can always stay in your heart, but not in your life”
I heard it from somewhere and it has stayed with me.

[88maroon]

I don’t think you did because I’m pretty sure you’ll see her around campus again. Just try being in the library a little more then usual. Good because you can get some hw and studying done even if she doesn’t come.
As trying to talk to her… just try to read her body language. And please try not to pick her up while she’s just getting in the library. She’s going there for a reason, to get work done. The last thing she needs is a guy trying to pick her up.
Try a friendly smile maybe if you walk pass one another. See what happens.
Then try talking to her. Small talk. Don’t ask her out right away. Then after you feel comfortable ask her.
OR if your feeling confident
you can just go up to her and be forward and be like “hey i’m (your name), would you like to go out some time?”
It’s forward but simple and sometimes that’s all you need. But you have to be really confident when you do this one.

[88maroon]

hello,
That was very long, but that’s good because it had a lot of details.
I’m all in for the romantic/cliche things that could happen. I’m a romantic.
If she has a new bf I honestly would move on. Not even think about her.
I know it’s hard because of the feelings there. It’s not going to happen overnight.
I like the fact that you are trying, made new friends, going on dates, and trying new things.
Just try to move on and if some how you guys meet again and are both single. You guys can try it again.
And for her parents….I wouldn’t think too much about that.
Parents approval is very important! Very important to have their approvals. But it’s not the most important thing. As long as both you and your gf are happy .Then what more can you do if her parents don’t approve even when you haven’t done anything wrong.
Best wishes and I hope you can find someone who is more mature because rubbing things in your face is not cool.

[88maroon]

If you are okay with just being a booty call then go right ahead.
We all have our needs. And her being your ex makes it easier because you are comfortable doing things with her.
I was in a situation like this. My ex and I decided we can be friends, fool around, but it never felt right.
It never felt right because i wanted more then the physical things, and she wasn’t ready.
Don’t get me wrong, you guys act like a couple but at the end of the day you’re both still single.
I honestly would say try again (big gesture/something special) and if it doesn’t work then move on.
What you have to learn is that certain people can always be in your heart, but not in your life.
As I said, try and if it doesn’t work cut you losses. It seems immature but ignoring will help and you have to be strong
You will find someone else, we often do especially when we’re not looking.

[88maroon]

Going out on those first dates after getting being with someone for a long time is nerve racking.
It’s good to have those exciting/nervous feelings. I feel like you fell,fell fast, and hard.
I think your first mistake was doubting yourself. Thinking that you are being used. Have more confidence in yourself and confidence in the time you spent with one another.
Don’t be that jealous guy, so what if she was on her profile. Are you guys official? I’m guessing no.
If she’s not putting an effort, you created and joined a dating site for a reason. Go back on that baby and meet new people. Maybe she is just really busy, maybe you being overly jealous made her think twice, it could be anything. Just give her space and continue with your life.
But for future references, You have to be able to trust. Dont overreact to little things.

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