[hsmith7113]

Sounds like something I’m going through. My advice would be to move on. I am! No one deserves to be lied to. If he is so willing to lie now, who knows what hell lie about in the future. I hope this helps.

[hsmith7113]

Sounds like something I’m going through. My advice would be to move on. I am! No one deserves to be lied to. If he is so willing to lie now, who knows what hell lie about in the future. I hope this helps.

[hsmith7113]

Thank you.
I know there are things that we both could do to better our time together.
He says that the talking to other women is purely innocent. He says that I’m not doing anything wrong, and he loves me and wants to be with me.
I don’t have a choice to like it or not. I don’t know if I should bring it up to him or not because of what happened last time. Everything was blown way out of proportion and it wasn’t very nice. The things he said to me then still float in my mind on occasion.
When he did it before, I just got custody of two of my kids. I had to quit my job because I coukdnt afford child care, my youngest is 3. So, all of the bills were on him. He was under stress. Now, we just moved to another house to be closer to were he works so it won’t be so hard on him. I know that the move was hard because we had such a short notice to get out. I think I’m not going to bring anything up, and work on my actions towards him more more and see how that goes.

[hsmith7113]

The person above is right, there isn’t a magic tell how to get any girl/guy out there. I would suggest to be yourself, don’t try to impress her with things that aren’t you. Before you can do anything you have to go talk to her. Rejection hurts, but you have to put yourself out there..
Best wishes

[hsmith7113]

Guys are jerks! Especially teenage guys. Young guys often don’t know what they want. In my honest opinion, I think you should ignore him. If you see him outside, walk away. I know he hurt you by those things he said to your friend but, if he truly cared about you he wouldn’t let his family push him around.

Besides, you want a guy with a J.O.B and a car.

I think if he was staying with his sister for free, he should help out. Growing up, I always had a baby on my hip (not my kid) My family used it as a form of birth control.

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