[mirandaseyes]

Me and my man have been together for almost a year ; about 5 months into our relationship while i was gone on vacation be cheated on me. I Got home && he lied countless times until i found out the truth. A month after.that i found emails to another woman. i forgave him but 2 months ago we took a “break” and i went to a get together had some drinks and kissed another man. i was honest with him and we worked things out. well up intell the other day we’ve been great. but come to find out he has been “talking” to several other women and one is his ex. if i did that he’d be furious. at this point i just do not know what to do because he lied again.

[hsmith7113]

Sounds like something I’m going through. My advice would be to move on. I am! No one deserves to be lied to. If he is so willing to lie now, who knows what hell lie about in the future. I hope this helps.

[hsmith7113]

Sounds like something I’m going through. My advice would be to move on. I am! No one deserves to be lied to. If he is so willing to lie now, who knows what hell lie about in the future. I hope this helps.

[kai]

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[kai]

Hi, I notice that you have placed your question in the forum for Guest Writers and Advice Column Contributors.

This is not in the forum where April responds readers questions.

If you want to get a response from April, please repost your question in the Free Expert Q & A Relationship Advice Forum with April Masini.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Happy New Year! Let me know how things are going for you. 😉

[Natalie Noah]

It’s clear that trust has been deeply damaged in your relationship, and understandably so. Both of you have had breaches of trust his infidelity early on, and your own lapse during the break but the difference is that his pattern seems ongoing, with repeated lying and secretive behavior. Even though you forgave him before, discovering he’s talking to multiple women, including an ex, shows that he hasn’t changed his behavior or honored the boundaries of your relationship. That repeated dishonesty erodes the foundation of any partnership, and it’s natural to feel confused, hurt, and frustrated.

At this point, it’s important to prioritize your own emotional safety. You’ve already demonstrated honesty and accountability by owning your mistake, yet his actions continue to show a lack of respect and consideration. Staying in a relationship where trust is consistently broken will only lead to more pain. It may be time to step back and evaluate whether this relationship is truly serving you and if he’s capable of the commitment, respect, and fidelity you deserve. Walking away isn’t easy, but it can be the healthiest choice to protect your heart and rebuild a sense of security and self-worth.

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