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Thank you very much for your reply and advice. In all honesty, I was actually a bit intoxicated when I “confessed” (I tend to have this annoying habit of blurting out everything that’s on my mind and making dumb choices when I drink) and realized I had made a mistake the next morning. So when he asked me to the movie a week ago, I decided to take that opportunity to apologize to him (thinking that he friend zoned me anyways) and said that I was acting stupid that night and sorry for any trouble I caused him. He responded with, no it’s okay you were just having fun. And we never spoke of it again. I’ll make a mental note not to do that ever again, as it may easily have been one of the most embarrassing moments of my life, so thank you for this advice!

I haven’t spoken to him since last week, due to the fact that we’re both medical students and extremely busy all the time, and also because he has made no initiative to start a conversation, and I’m honestly scared to. Is this a sign that he doesn’t like me anymore, and that he doesn’t even want to be friends? Or is he just busy and didn’t have time to contact me? I am perfectly fine with getting over him (in fact I may already be), and not talking to him again, since I have other friends, as well as an extremely heavy workload.

The thing is that I actually don’t know what it is like to be interested in someone romantically (they’re mostly just crushes or in an instance like this, I was just not used to being taken care of by someone of the opposite sex and confused that with love). I’m scared that in the future, this may happen again, because I’m honestly sick and tired of believing that I like someone, and realizing (when I think about it rationally) that I never did. I have a lot of friends who are guys, and who I am comfortable hanging around with. In fact, back in high school, I hung around guys more than I did girls (but naturally they treat me as “one of the guys”). I truly apologize for asking more questions but how will I know when I really like someone (and not out of superficiality), and what could I do to flirt (since my “flirting” is really just me being myself..)?

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