Abandonment issues can cause behaviuor like what you have discribed here. I personaly have had women with these issues get “freaked out” when they start to have strong feelings for people. It isn’t that you did anything wrong.
Well other then maybe, and this is just a maybe, you pushed to see her agian too soon. Women with these type of issues need time to get involved with. Hanging out to much makes them feel closer to you which brings in the fear that you will leave to the surface.
Men who abuse and beat women tend make all sorts of promisses and treat them very well in the first few weeks or months of the relationship. If you are to get close to another women with these isesue it is best to take it slow and prove to her that your not that kind of guy. Women like that take a lot of time to get in to a relationship with because you are the healing process.
At this point I’m sorry but she will not be a possibility anymore.
