So… I talked to her about it. I was apprehensive about asking because I like her very much and really was affraid this could be a catalyst to end our relationship or just to change it for the worse. When I brought it up she acknowledged that they were there and there was no denial or anger. She listened to me explain that I had come across them and how it made me feel and my concerns about that and then she asked if I would like her to delete them. She said that she had more or less completely forgotten that they were there, that it was from single times and ment absolutely nothing to her. She didn’t hesitate for a second, was completely concerned with my feelings and being sure that I understood and felt how much I mean to her. Admittedly, a past relationship with a woman who was always keeping secrets, had hidden agendas and lies has caused me to have distorted expectations of how things like this should go. I’m working past that but it still affects me for sure. I think that perhaps my complete surprise at her open, caring and honest reaction to me is proof that I have a ways to go still. I found a great woman. Thank you so much for your advice. All I needed to do was talk to her. All I could do was talk to her.
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