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I understand your point. The only thing I question about is, and this can be used for any situation, is by talking to a girl but waiting to ask her out. In todays society dating is a competition, and if I start talking to a girl on a regular basis, and wait till later to ask her out, that gives other men the chance to make a move on her and her to go out with them. I’m a now person and if I talk to a girl I like I’m going to want to ask her out a.s.a.p or at least give “hint” that I’d like to go out with her. I want her to know I’m interested in her and go out with her soon, but I also don’t want to be aggressive and put her on the spot. How do I find the right balance of geting a girl interested in me without being aggressive while there are other men that I’d assume would want to go out with her?

[hotstuff]

Yea I have seen her around and she’s seen me. I want to talk to her but I’m trying to figure out when or where is the best time/place. I see her alot at the caffeteria and sometimes at the sports complex. If she’s alone I’m taking advantage of it. But if I don’t get that chance and she’s with friends then I’m not sure how to go about that. I know she’s on the tennis team and I did meet one of her team mates before. Could I use that to my advantage? What could I do to really get her attention that sets me apart from all the other guys she socializes with?

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