[coolbeans]

There’s one more thing I’d like advice on. The person you see yourself with in your head, is that really important? My parents got divorce when I was at a young age and I said to myself I want a wife of my own and I want done right. So in my head I visuallize the relationship and the woman I see myself with. Sometimes I feel that I’m shooting beyond the stars and what’s in my head is not possible to be a reality. Some people say I should go out with this girl and that girl just because she’s single, nice, or whatever but I don’t act desperate and go out with any girl just because I’m lonely. I know what the woman I want to be with, unfortunitly i’ve made some miscalculations along the way, but as you said you can’t strike out forever. Does what you visualize in your head really matter?

[coolbeans]

I’m 22 and never had a gf or even been on a date (go ahead make fun of me). I don’t get shot down often because I’d say 90 percent of girls I talk to have bf, of course I don’t know if they do. One time I started talking to a girl that knew my sister and she shot me down because I liked her. I remember her saying that. She told my sister about our conversation and that’s when my sister told me the advice. I’m being to forward is another way to say it. As for what I do to get dates is when I like a girl I talk to her when I get an opportunity and have small talk introduce myself and try to have fun, be playful. I’m not afraid to ask a girl out or tell her I like her if its technically too early for that but I don’t like to waste time. So I hope I’ve given you the info you wanted. What do i need to do or change?

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