[broken51]

Thank you for the response. I guess one of the main things that I am struggling with, is the fact that we were/are compatible. We had similar goals, and discussed them. Marriage, house, this city, one kid. We were the couple that people talked about, the two that are so suited for each other. I had a friend tell an acquaintance just that the week before this happened. The cited “differences” are his love for fly fishing, and my love for travel. Serious! Our life goals have always been the same. We are a lot a like, so we have always found that it was nice to have some different hobbies to keep things interesting.

This is why I am so confused, and so taken aback. Why I am looking for just the right way to approach him and help him see the forest through the trees. Why I hope he is just getting cold feet, or freaking out because he’s turning 30 and I found his first grey hair only a week before this happened!

[broken51]

I am 28 and he is 29 (though I’ll be 29 in July and he’s turning 30 in August).

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