[tango76]

Update~ This a like a dram movie. Sorry for the long post but I wanted to provide you all the info.

Well my girl and I are no longer together. As I stated before she was very upset that there is a great chance that I may not be the father. But still not 100%. She came back on Monday but everything seemed different. She didn’t want to even talk to me the whole night. We had gotten into an argument over that. Then on Tuesday evening it was the same issue. This time it was even worse. If I would come into one room she would leave out. I decided not to even say anything. I did ask her if she was going to eat some food since the only thing she ate all day was some chips and crackers. I told her that needs to feed the baby she replied no. A couple of hours later I gave her a towel to take a shower and that’s when she told me that she was moving out. Then that’s when she told me that she was unhappy with me. I was shocked. Just last Friday and Monday she told me her feelings were still the same(cared and like me a lot). Now all of the sudden she is unhappy with me. I asked her to explain why she was unhappy but she couldn’t. We argued about that to the point that I told her that she needs to leave. I then caught myself and told her I’m not going to kick her out that late being pregnant. She didn’t care she asked me to take her to he best friend’s apartment. Come to find out that night she didn’t go there because her and her best friend are not talking anymore. All her friends stopped talking to her because how she was acting towards me.They told me she is a liar and she is bad for me.They know that I’m a good guy and I did a lot for this woman. So now they are disgusted with her. Anyway one of her closed friends called me that night and told me to mention another guys name. She told me my ex did not go to her best friends house she went to somewhere else. SHe also told me that my ex did not stay with her the whole weekend.I was shocked and disappointed. So the following morning I received multiple text from her. I responded back and told her that she needs to get her stuff out. I also called her a liar and she replied back saying she wasn’t lying about anything. She said she was trying to respect me by not telling me the real reason was because the other guy. She told me that she ran into this weekend and they exchanged numbers. I thought that was a garbage excuse. So later on that afternoon she came and picked up her stuff. We had a discussion and she tried to blame me for everything. Her losing all her friends and that I kicked her out of the house. I responded back and then I asked her why was she moving in with this guy and what does he have that I don’t have. She told me that I’m too nice and he’s an asshole but she’s just staying there until she can find her on place. I was like that doesn’t make any sense to me. I said what I had to say and it seemed like it kind of touched her. I ended up dropping her off in the neighborhood she was moving to. I said one last thing before we took her bags out. She was silent for a minute and she was about to cry. Later on that day I was receiving more intel from her ex friend. They decided to resolve their issues before they parted ways. Her ex friend told me earlier that day she asked her if she was doing the right thing. She told her it’s your decision. Her ex friend also told me that my ex was telling her that she loves this guy and he may be the father. Wow!. This guy told her ex friend that he has doubt’s that he is the father and asked her where was my ex staying on Monday, Her ex friend told him that she wasn’t at her place. She must have told him that she was staying there. He’s very suspicious about her. I can understand why. Her ex friends told me that she doesn’t know who the father is. Here is the rundown. She dated him briefly early March. They have sex. Her ex friends told me that the following week she had sex with her so-called best friend. Then a month later she has sex with me multiple times. She then finds out she’s pregnant tried to put it on the second guy so she hit him up on FB. He’s thinking he may be a father to another kid. She then tells me I may be the father and hopes I am. Stops contacting the second guy. Then after the second check up she has some doubts that the baby is mine. She is feeling down in the dumps. Then all of the sudden now she is putting the baby on the first guy. I feel bad for the dude because he works near me. I don’t want him to go through the same mess I had to endure. Several of my male friends told me I need to inform him before he starts spending all his money on this woman. Especially since he has his doubts. Anyway can you give me some advice? I hated how our relationship ended. What do I need to do to have some type of sensible communication? She blocked me from Skype and I blocked her from a text app out here in South Korea. I’m asking this just in case the baby may be mine. I don’t want to wonder around thinking I have another child out there because I need to have that relationship and he/she needs to know that he/she has a sister. Do you think I should tell the other guy? My friends think so because she is about to destroy another man’s life.

[tango76]

I asked her to move in when we thought that she was pregnant by me. It was around the same time her and roommates were moving out of there apartment. I only suggested that because I thought that she was carrying my baby. Any other time I would not have a woman move in with me that early. I didn’t want the woman that may be pregnant by me try to look for a place when she can stay here. I do understand that we barely know each other and may have personality clashes.I have been trying to persuade her to get another test/second opinion but she refuses to do it. She told me that she is not trying to have high hopes and then get hit with disappointment again. I also suggested that she may need to consider an abortion since she is so upset about the fact that the baby may not be mine and also the complications.Not trying to push the issue because it’s up to her and it’s her body. She refuses to do that also.She was up honest with me about her past.When we first started dating she did tell me that the last person she had sex with was her ex before they had broken up. In which was around a month prior of meeting me. I did sit back and process some things that I was thinking about and what you pointed out. You have some valid points.We both like, care, and respect each other a lot. We enjoy each others company. I do respect the fact that she was honest with me by telling me the baby may not be mine. Some women may have let the guy believe it is his until either birth or DNA test. I did suggest to get a second opinion but she refuse to do it. We haven’t spoken to each other since I dropped her off Friday my time frame(South Korea). Before I dropped her off she told me that she will contact me this weekend. I have not heard from her since and I may not even try to make an attempt to contact her. Even though I really want to know how she’s doing mentally and physically.

[tango76]

I asked her to move in when we thought that she was pregnant by me. It was around the same time her and roommates were moving out of there apartment. I only suggested that because I thought that she was carrying my baby. Any other time I would not have a woman move in with me that early. I didn’t want the woman that may be pregnant by me try to look for a place when she can stay here. I do understand that we barely know each other and may have personality clashes.I have been trying to persuade her to get another test/second opinion but she refuses to do it. She told me that she is not trying to have high hopes and then get hit with disappointment again. I also suggested that she may need to consider an abortion since she is so upset about the fact that the baby may not be mine and also the complications.Not trying to push the issue because it’s up to her and it’s her body. She refuses to do that also.She was up honest with me about her past.When we first started dating she did tell me that the last person she had sex with was her ex before they had broken up. In which was around a month prior of meeting me. I did sit back and process some things that I was thinking about and what you pointed out. You have some valid points.We both like, care, and respect each other a lot. We enjoy each others company. I do respect the fact that she was honest with me by telling me the baby may not be mine. Some women may have let the guy believe it is his until either birth or DNA test. I did suggest to get a second opinion but she refuse to do it. We haven’t spoken to each other since I dropped her off Friday my time frame(South Korea). Before I dropped her off she told me that she will contact me this weekend. I have not heard from her since and I may not even try to make an attempt to contact her. Even though I really want to know how she’s doing mentally and physically.

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