I totaly get what you are saying about us not being able to be in a full time committed relationship and i agree with that. But the thing is what do i do when i am in mexico. Should i tell him that we cant do anything? If i do that there is no way to avoid eachother becasue we live nextdoor to each other and have the same friends. When we are together even in a large group of peole it feels like we are the only two people there. When he smiles at me from across the room i and everyone els in the room can feel the love. So it is going to be hard not to at least hook up. should i say that when i am in mexico we are together but when i leave we are just friends and we are free to see other people. The only problem with that is one of us going to get into a relationship (like he is now) and then when we see each other one of will be cheating on their other person (like we did). I think that we have something special and i would be willing to risk a break up in order to be with him. Currently he is the top person i want to be with and everyone els falls to the waist side. however, how can i tell him to end things with his gf for the time that i am there and then get back with her when i leave. That wont work because it means breaking up with the girl friend for a few weeks at a time for me but then i go home and obviously i will hook up with other guys and he will get back with his gf. This is a cycle i have been dealing with for a while and the way he deals with it is by lying and saying he isnt with his gf. Am i the other girl or is she? how can i make it work while making him happy and not seeming clingy and forceful by making him break up with his girl friend for a few weeks at a time ? We both love each other it is just hard at our age and the temptations and feelings are much to great to not act on them unless i make a set rule saying NOTHING can happen. HELP!!
