I’m happy in the relationship, and quite frankly, can handle his antics. Something happens and it wreaks havoc on me for a while and then I don’t allow it to. The issue is that I don’t know what preventative measures I can take to help him stop this crap. He realizes that there is a huge internal issue and knows I’m willing to wait it out for him. BUT I am not willing to be married to a man who has sex with other women. We have a nasty, ironclad pre-nup that states that if we divorce I get half of the valuation of his portion of his company. With the amount that totals to and with him knowing that sex outside the relationship will result in divorce, you’d think he would play it safe. How do I help him with the insecurities? How do I answer “I just like to flirt. I don’t know why.”?