[Sunshine77]

Thank, April 🙂 I think that my friend is honestly a good person and a real sweetheart, but whatever his reasons may be, I can’t sit and wait forever. Plus it doesn’t hurt none that the other guy is so handsome LOL

[Sunshine77]

Fast update here, well here and there me and this friend did chat some more but again, nothing new. However, I got to thinking. A man who wants to be a close friend, likes to talk, knows more about kitchen appliances than I do, and never makes a move – hmmmm. A girl wonders if he’s into girls at all, LOL.

So the other guy who openly chases me, says he can’t wait to see me, and flirts like crazy, that’s on!

[Sunshine77]

Thanks, April. It does help. I have been married and divorced, then in a long relationship with a childhood friend. So I don’t date around a lot and basically just tend to go for relationships that can last, or at least I think so at the time lol

Anyway, I have been ”married” to my work mostly these days, but the other guys who did pursue me were so trying to rush me into sex, well that’s just not for me. At least with this guy, there is the foundation of friendship and some trust. I really enjoy how smart he is and how he always wants to be there for me. He’s more traditional than lots of other guys barking up my tree.

That said, you are right. If a guy wants to ask you out, he will ask you out.

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