I didn’t say I wanted to. She said she didn’t want me too after I had to ask her to share what really went on with that guy. Afterwards I was like well wait why did u say that? Just for the sake of what would ve the big deal if I did which I didn’t plan on doing in the first place. Its probably just one of those things where I don’t think its a big deal but to someone else it is.
but I see your point about controlling things. I guess emotions and matters of the heart can be scary and we can try to take control of different things in order to try and calm ourselves which isn’t fair or right either.
I LL try and be better about that, but do you have any tips on communicating with a very independent, private woman who has a tough time expressing herself? I hope that doesn’t sound sexist because I’m genuinely wanting to learn better ways to communicate with her so she will feel safe and more willing to open up and trust me. I usually do a poor job at it and wait until something is really bugging me which turns naturally puts her on the defensive. I really don’t want it to be like that you know?
