[lisa12000]

No i dont know hes playing the field, the girl hes talking to has a boyfriend of 5 years im convinced its my paranoia thats causing all this although i refuse to believe i acted out of turn on Sunday; he hasnt had a serious relationship ever and to me he seems like he just wants the good parts and doesnt like me getting emotional; Thing is i do love him so will fight for him, but im not sure hes worth fighting for if at the first sign of trouble he gives me the silent treatment for days

[lisa12000]

Thanks April, i guess im not looking to blame him at all for being impulsive, and the other girl he talks to is very taken, but im not sure how to take the messages that we are still together, that we are going away together, and he is still coming to see me next weekend, (usually answers to my specific questions) but then the very indifferent texts which he blames on my reaction to sunday night. The texts before were like nothing ive ever had before,so loving, but my mum and friends believe that they were only to get me in to bed!

Do i just keep texting? leave him alone? trust that he still wants these things but needs more space? im just not sure how to play things at the moment really; he knows about my past relationship where my ex used to give me the silent treatment after a row and said hed never do that but it feels like this is what hes doing tbh

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