Thanks so much April. I guess the only thing holding me back from being the “coordinator” was the discouragement of knowing that I’m only 24 (and we’re not even married yet!)… I didn’t want to think that ALREADY I’d be starting this kind of effort. But this is my best friend, not just some guy, and so I happily take your advice! You’re so right, the more talk I do brings him down a little, and I did not want to do that. I brought him out to a new restaurant yesterday and we sat and just chatted for a good 2 hours. I could tell he was feeling a lot better. We laughed a lot, and in the end as we were walking back to our building, he wanted to walk back the long way. Judging by this result, you’re advice is definitely leading us down the right track. Now to gradually step it up a notch, slowly but surely. Thank you 🙂
