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Ok so I posted something last week that you responded to that helped me out, but now I have a new problem. I’ve been talking to this girl for almost 2 months now after meeting her on a well known dating site. We are both in our mid 30’s and were in long relationships up to about 6-8 months ago. We both are looking for a marriage that will last and both want kids. We’ve been out 10 times now and things have been going pretty good. She’s an extremely busy women with a full time job and a part time job and she owns a dog and a horse which keeps her very busy. And i am completely fine with it, but hope that eventually she will want to become more serious and invite me into he4 life more so that we can spend some more time together since its very minimal right now. Because i really like her a lot. Anyways, we went out the other day to a haunted halloween park and had a pretty good time I thought. Although she was very tired and exhausted when we met after a long busy day that she’d had, which by the way kind of put a kink in my plans because I had planned to make a move and take the affectionate part to the next step. Which i did but i kept it a little more subtle than i originally had planned lol putting my arms around her, rubbing her shoulders while in line, and when she asked if i had any questions for her I asked if she was an affectionate person herself or if she prefers to let the guy make the first move. Anyways, I messaged her 2 days ago in the morning and she wasn’t able to respond back until late that night saying that she had a migraine. So I kept the conversation short since she wasn’t feeling good and went ahead and said goodnight so that she could go to back and get some rest. I messaged her yesterday morning saying good morning and hoping her migraine was gone, buy she never messaged me back at all yesterday nor has she messaged me today at all which I didn’t message her either since I messaged her last yesterday morning. What should I do? I don’t feel that I’ve been clingy at all because I’ve really made sure of that. I would really like to become more of a relationship at this point. but I’m confused a bit about not hearing back from her at all and we’ve been texting at least once a day sometimes more for about 3 weeks now. Any help would be appreciated. Thanks

Ok so now its been 6 days since the last date and 3 days since we’ve spoke now. I guess my thing is … at what point in this age of life (36) is it not only ok for a guy to ask about moving on to the next level, but yet not feeling guilty about possibly putting pressure on the girl and taking the chance of ruining something good? I guess on my end I feel after 2 months now id like to become more in a relationship status … but I cant seem to tell if she wants the same and after the past 3 days I’m starting to wondering if shes even interested anymore. Then again I feel I may be thinking too much into it. I dunno. Dating sux at this age lol. Its a lot of pressure when your “deadline” age for kids and hopefully a marriage first is coming up and you’ve met someone that feels the same, someone you really like and are falling for, but doesn’t seem to be as open about talking on the subject as much as you do.

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I suggest leave her alone and move on. She obviously has some issues if what you say is all true. If she messages you back then chat but dont be so serious like.

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Ok so its been 6 days since the last date and 3 days since we’ve spoke now. I guess my thing is … at what point in this age of life (36) is it not only ok for a guy to ask about moving on to the next level, but yet not feeling guilty about possibly putting pressure on the girl and taking the chance of ruining something good? I guess on my end I feel after 2 months now id like to become more in a relationship status … but I cant seem to tell if she wants the same and after the past 3 days I’m starting to wondering if shes even interested anymore. Then again I feel I may be thinking too much into it. I dunno. Dating sux at this age lol. Its a lot of pressure when your “deadline” age for kids and hopefully a marriage first is coming up and you’ve met someone that feels the same, someone you really like and are falling for, but doesn’t seem to be as open about talking on the subject as much as you do. Makes it hard.

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