[txheart]

So I finally talked to him. I did do it in bed but I was on my period so I knew nothing could happen then and there anyway. He said its nothing to do with me and he’s just very insecure about it all, and it’s just a problem with him that he’ll just have to work on. I was heaps supportive and said that we’d work on it together and everything. This talk was about 2 weeks ago and since then I haven’t tried to pressure him at all (my period lasted for 2 weeks and only just finished today) but I said how about we take things slow and I give him a blow job? Then he said he wasn’t feeling well so another night.. I bring it up a few nights later and he says “how about on the weekend when we have a few drinks?” It gets to the weekend and things just keep getting in the way, and nothing’s changed. I know he’s nervous and anxious but I have no idea how to handle this or make it easier for him. It makes it difficult for me to be the one to make all the moves because I have insecurities myself and it feels shit when he just makes up excuses.

What can I do? 🙁

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