[Calichu12]

Theres one more thing, how am i supposed to cope with this? I’ve deleted him from everything, and our pictures & messages, threw out everything i had from/ of him but it made me feel worse.
none of my friends understand, they try to comfort me but they also tell me its impossible to care this much about a longdistance relationship that formed like that & im sure theres one person that would listen but i know what they would be thinking, that I’m dumb or something. I dont normally let myself get this attached to anyone i havent known for ever due to ppl that should have never hurt me hurting me, and a guy that did. So it makes it so much harder that i actually invested everything.
i don’t know what to do now.

[Calichu12]

I actually have a couple questions on this still. Like, how can I cope with this? It’s probably a long shot asking somebody that hasn’t gone through it, but I just don’t know. I deleted him from ever website, I deleted our pictures, and messages I’ve had saved but I feel worse. And I can’t physicaly, face to face talk to anybody about this because each one basically tells me that it’s not possible to care this much about a long distance relationship first forming online, that Im just tricking myself and I’ll get over it real soon but I wont. I’m sure theres a couple ppl i can go to and theyd just listen but now i know what theyd be thinking, that im just dumb or something and that hurts more.i dont often times let myself get as attached to anyone as i did due to getting hurt in the past by a guy & ppl that were always supposed to be there and werent, so it makes it harder. So yeah, how am i supposed to cope with it all

[Calichu12]

I probably should have specified that by a few times and a sort of relationship, I was referring to near when we first admitted feelings, simply because I wasn’t going to get too involved with someone I had never met. After a couple times of meeting him, I had agreed to a relationship- set lines and all that neither of us were or would see any other people. That’s mainly why I’m so confused, there was nothing said about our relationship being over, actually that we were going to take it up a notch.
but regardless of that, I guess what you said goes to both. I’ll take everything you said into deep consideration, truly. Thank you.

[Calichu12]

But the thing his, I’ve met him various times, a few of which for weeks at a time. And I doubt the whole him dating other girls thing because having met his friends and him himself, I heard about some of his past relationships and related subjects. He wasnt the type of guy to get many girls, he was more the friendzoned one and he had been hurt many times, and from every preference I heard from his friends and a family member of his, he’s the most honest person so the thought that he could see any other girl while being in a relationship with me, is nearly impossible. He seemed geuine, and everyone that met him through me agreed- and they rarely agreed with a guy I thought was amazing. And how he could tell his friends, his family and others that he was with me, it’s harder to believe he would be unfaithful. I’m sorry for being so difficult, I truly am. ): Just, none of it adds up to me.

[Calichu12]

I met him online about 3 years ago and how: he had a facebook page for starting out a business sort of thing with special affects makeup he does and I was looking for people that could do it well, there was a link to his personal account and I was just asking for information on what he has dne professionaly, and we just started talking.

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