[Jacksover9s]

So we decided to take a break from each other on Monday. I said have a nice day, she texted back “you too!!” I sent her a long text explaining how I just wanted to get things back to normal and just kind of let things settle down a little bit. I haven’t heard back from her at all.

How long do i wait until I contact her again? And what should I say, just “How are you?”

[Jacksover9s]

Thanks April, it does help alot. I just wanted to make sure I wasn’t completely off my rocker on this one, and I don’t think I am. I’ll keep you updated but I really appreciate your insight.

[Jacksover9s]

Yes but April, she asked me what it would be like to date me FRIDAY NIGHT. This is why I’m confused. It wasn’t in the past. The flirting has never stopped. She says one thing, then does another. It’s like she means it, and then when i take it seriously, then its we should only be friends.

Look, I know you say I should decide if I want to be serious or not, but I do , with her.

So we’re laying on the couch after going out on a friend date Friday night, and talking and she says what it would be like to date me. On Sunday, when I tell her how I feel, then she throws the whole i don’t want to date you thing at me. I think she doesn’t want the pressure it creates. And maybe I pushed too hard? But this is an on-going cycle with her. I know she’s confused, but people don’t ask that unless they want to date you right?

[Jacksover9s]

Well, I guess the most obvious one to me was asking me what it would be like to date me?

[Jacksover9s]

Thanks April. We’re both in our 30’s and actually met through our kids – they’re on a soccer team together.

So you’re saying I’m imagining these signs?

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