Thank you for the replies! It has been about a month since I met this guy at the wedding and I am traveling back to his area in a couple of weeks. We have kept in touch and talk on a regular basis (every few days) and when we do talk its for a while, for hours. The other night we talked and he admitted he wanted to hang out with me after the wedding but felt uncomfortable asking me because he didn’t want to impose and we had just met. I admitted I was in the same boat that night. He knows I am coming in a couple of weeks and we talk about it but haven’t made any concrete plans. I think he is nervous and shy (not a lot of experience with girls). Should I wait a little longer before making concrete plans with him? I don’t know the area very well so I’m not sure how to ask. I really like this guy and don’t want to lose the opportunity to hang out with him because we are both shy lol.