We are all between 21-23. I was in my primary relationship for 3 years and we were not living together or married. The guy on the side was not married nor is he seeing anyone else. I have recently spoken to someone that the guy on the sie was telling how he felt. It turns out the guy on the side is just tired of not being the only one and it’s not that he doesn’t want anything to do with me. I am prepared to let him know that he now is the only one but he does not want to speak to me. How should I get him to talk to me?