Hi, thank you April, I fully understand what you have advised and yes it feels right to do that and to slow down…
All along it has been he who has ‘led’ and he who has made these proclamations….(although I did go along with it)and that’s why it feels so hurtful that he is maybe pulling back.
I am going to not let this worry me after reading your advice, but I think I will give him a little space. I think I need to feel a bit more in control.
We are both in our 40s, both previously married but only him with a child.
Thanks again!