I’m 27. He lives in Minnesota and I’m in Maryland, near Dc. He was here for 3 weeks and then went home in October. His ex moved out at the end of the month. Then we were together in New York for a week. 2 weeks later, I stayed with him in Minnesota for a few weeks. A month later, he was in Virginia for a few weeks (30 min away from me). I haven’t seen him since the end of January. Guy 1 is 25 and Guy 2 is 28.